ok good one here. just dropped our son off at our house....we sat on the porch and talked for 20 minutes. stupid stuff, how our days are etc. i said something funny and she said "get out" (as in "no way!") and i said "already did" (as in i moved out) she got quiet and said well you can have the house if you want i guess....so i took the opportunity to tell her I think she should stay there, i know she is afraid at night of being alone but one way to overcome that is to try to stick it out, keep busy til she's ready to close her eyes, etc. she didn't lash out or comment after that.........she took what I said to heart. in closing i said it was nice to talk to her and "thank you for a beautiful son. i am blessed"
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
