Big step tomorrow: I get my rental house. I'll move furniture tomorrow and then be completely out by Tuesday. Very emotional time. This week marked one year ago that H came home from work one day to say he wanted a divorce and blew me out of the water. One whole year. I'm so tired and I'm so done, I just want to skip ahead six months to a year.

If three years ago someone would have told me that I'd now be a single mom living in a gated community in the suburbs, I would have had them committed. My, how life can change.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.