I still have the X's last name and have been D'd almost a year. I now do not want to be asscociated with the name especially since OW now has it. But like everyone has said it's your choce and what you will feel comfortable with.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher