Addie, you posted while I was writing! I wish I could take your advice and be patient...
Oh Stella, it is so much easier to give advice than to actually follow through with it. I myself have been very impatient the last several weeks as my H goes through the same thing. The withdrawal from OW takes a long time. Whenever the WAS makes contact with the OP it is back to square one in the withdrawal process. Your H may not be strong enough to end contact until you are back with him. How much longer til your move?
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