Hi Very, good job. It's always a warm fuzzy feeling to help another.

You may point your friend to my original postings. It sounds like she may be in a similar sitch to mine.

Take care.

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.