Leaving with "positive history" while you are gone is GREAT! Have a great trip to NY. Are you going to be in the city, or upstate? All my H's family is upstate so we've been back several times.
Have fun, and PMA!
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
wow! thanks everyone! i am excited...a teeny bit anxious as i feel this weirdness about being away from my H- isnt that weird! we arent even living together and i have this odd feeling about not being available "just in case"...thats how i always felt...so this is very good for me to break out of that shell....
should i wait for him to contact me after our great interactions last week? i want him to contact me, but im not sure....
thanks guys- heading to upstate NY...
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
Agreed, let him miss you. Maybe even miss his first call or two.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
