If all your friends and family are putting pressure on her, I would suggest you go and do something kind to repay them for their support. MANY people on this forum do not get HALF the support you are getting.
In my case all my gf's friends just turned a blind eye to it all and have kept quiet. They won't say a word.
I talk to them and I get "this is a private matter between you and her".
You have some supportive people around you - repay them. Don't take support for granted, it can be taken from you at any time.
