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We have a lot in common? I am wearing khaki today \:\)

Geeso bridge, you make it sound like we're dating. I just have enjoyed bantering with her in class and was trying to figure out if she's married or not!

Fun just to think about the what ifs. I'm not ready to see anyone. Just like to chat.

I'll have to wait until next week to see if she has a ring on or not because I've decided to bag class tonight. The best part of higher education is paying a lot of money for the classes you cut! ;\)

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What a coincidence, you just happened to look all gorgeous after the hair appointment!

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Thanks, I usually don't primp, but ...

Did you perhaps mean this for Ms. Imp and her Italian?

Email from W. She wants me to do some graphics for her.

So this is just a silly thing, but it's been going on for awhile. We always used to sign our emails "me". Whenever she'd get pissed, she'd sign "Mrs. Lodo". During the buildup to Ding, she started signing "Mrs. Lodo" and I started signing "lodo", but then thought, WTH, so went back to "me" and after a little bit she did too. But everytime I'd sign "lodo", it seemed like she'd go back to "mrs. lodo".

So she's been signing "me" for coupla months now. There were some problems going on at work that she was involved with and we were having all these email exchanges, so I thought it'd be a perfect time to test. So I sent an email signed "lodo" and she replied "mrs. lodo", then I replied signing "me" and she replied "me"! Did it a couple times. What a game, I love it! What does it mean? Who knows but it makes me laugh! \:D


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lodo, your funny!

Just wanted to stop by and say hello. Your living a life that I can only dream about right now. Love catching up on your musings.

Just have fun with the emails. Don't read anymore in to it than you should.

Like I should be giving advice.


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Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."



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Yes, that comment was meant for Ms. Imp's thread. Don't know what I am doing!

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Another day. How did Lyle Lovett put it? "The sun comes up in a coffee cup ..."

Today I'm thankful that I live close enough to work that I can bicycle in. It's a great way to think about how to organize the day as I head in in the morning and to unwind and let go as I bike home at night. If I didn't get out much during the day, I still will have gotten a little exercise and I never feel frustrated by getting stuck in traffic.

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That's a nice positive thought to start the day!


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lodo sweetie,

A ring doesn't mean anything. I never wear mine around the house. Housework is very bad for settings. A lot of the time I leave the house without any jewelry.

You'd better come right out & ask her or any woman for that matter. After you've chatted her up some. But, you'd better play the field for a long time, & make darn sure that anybody you date is a total package deal.......cause you deserve the best, ( or I'll come slap you. \:\)

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I don't think you want to mess with her!(smartcookie I mean) You really do deserve the best though, so don't settle just because you are lonely.

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Maybe you could pose the question in a way that wouldn't seem like you're trying to ask if she's married/seeing someone... like when she says "we" you can ask "oh, you and your husband?" or something of that nature. But be smooth, not fumbly like me!

Hope you had a nice ride home. Have a happy weekend.


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Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence
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