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Neil and ndsm

YES!! Read 5 Love Languages. You guys will love the insight that you get out of it. Also, I recommend For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn. It is outstanding. I have read the women's version and I have gained a completely different perspective on how things that have happened in my marriage are interpreted by H nd I due to our gender differences. Give it a shot guys, you will not regret, I assure you.

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Originally Posted By: Bworl
Neil, what do you teach and how long you been at it?


HS World History, and electives. I also am a Varsity Girls Soccer coach...this fall will be my 9th year

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It's nice having the summer break, but it can definitely open the door to a few too many hours on a place like this, eh?



yup. although i'm beginning to feel better about my sitch. I"m sure i'll go through another stretch where i felt like i did a couple of days ago...hopefully, it'll be shorter this time.

going to see the dark knight tonite....and going to have some chicken wings....and going to read my harry potter book....

and i just got back from helping a friend paint their house. going back tomorrow bright and early...


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Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

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-Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams

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Dark Knight - awesome, you'll love it.

Wings - awesome, best going out with the guys food.

Harry Potter - great read.


Sounds like a great night ahead of you. Enjoy.


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Originally Posted By: Bworl


Wings - awesome, best going out with the guys food.


and since i'm south of buffalo, they know how to ACTUALLY make the wings...none of this crap at applebees or the other chain resturants.... LOL

i do have a question....is it bad that i still miss my W?


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Hey Neil -

Sounds like your are keeping busy. The emotional pain does go away with time.

The For Men Only book by Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn is a must read for us men. I also highly recommend Hold on to Your NUTs: The Relationship Manual for Men by Wayne Levine. The 8 Bettermen tools chapters are the best things I have read for men improving their relationship.

You might want to say hi to RefuseToLose over in "Divorced But Not Done" as he too is a high school history teacher.

BTW... My son is named Neil. I have yet to meet any other kids named Neil - is the name going out of style?

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kerry-
someone else recommended i get that book. LOL. looks like i'm going to have to now.

i decided to give myself a break from reading up on my sitch. i've been doing that for the past 5 months....i need a break because i start of obsess over it. But i will get them...

dark knight doesn't start until 930....craip. looks like i'm going to have to read until then!


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I would love to go see Dark Knight, but I have to figure out a sitter in order to do that. I like to look at Christian Bale, he is so sexily moody! SIGH!!

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gross.

i just want to see a good action flick....

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LOL

Have fun Neil! I am sure that there will be PLENTY of action.

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Neil,

You made me laugh with the gross comment. : )

It is okay that you miss your wife. It is normal.

I'm here at my mom's right now and I'm inches from tears because this is not where I want to be. I want to be with my husband and nowhere else.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

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