I have made it clear to her (by my actions, not words) that what is happening to us isn't fazing me negatively. as far as she knows I'm fine with all of this (quite a change from when I was a sobbing mess and she wouldn't go anywhere near me or talk to me)
What you're shooting for is letting her know that you're NOT "fine" with what she's doing -- whatsoever -- but you WILL be okay.
