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So, PDT or whoever else on here that is ultra smart about these kinds of things, I am asking the following:

1) what should I be saying when she mentions house hunting ?[/


Well, I don't know how "ultra smart" I am -- more like a knucklehead who's already made all the mistakes, last year, so maybe I'm a little wiser, but I'll take a crack at it:

I would say "Oh."

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2) what should I be saying when she mentions going to college ?


I would say (if you mean it, and it sounds like you do) "I think that's good." And no more.

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when she asks about me signing the sep. papers, I plan on telling her "i'm sorry you feel this way, but you're entitled to your own thoughts. I just want what's best for our family, and I don't believe divorce is it."


This is very good, Buster!

Puppy