in the very beginning I attempted to make her realize she was making mistakes and I was expressing my supreme disappointment in her rash decision making. according to everyone here, bad idea. so I stopped mentioning it. she knows I love her and want to be with her; that doesn't change over a few weeks. however last I knew (weeks ago) I needed to "move on, accept how things were." She "cares about me as a person and the father of our son, but not as a husband. not in that way" there was, as MarkF said, that "breakdown" on the phone last sunday where she was crying while I was on the phone with her....who knows what that's about...obviously everyone on here wants to know what their spouse is thinking... if they're out having a good time and missing you too. in reality though, how can these kinds of things eat up one person inside and not the other ? lust and addiction. i know her head is warped; if she doesn't now, she will. if she doesn't, oh well.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
