I am so glad that you believe that will come for me. Maybe I will truely believe when I have been out of this mess. How long does it take to feel normal again?
I try to distract myself and it works for a little while. I ran into an old friend yesterday. Told me he has been sick. He started smoking when he made Detective because of all the sick stuff he saw. Now he has COPD. My dad has it too but never smoked a day in his life. I told him about H. Rather have him hear it from me than the grapevine. Asked him if he knew anyone that could go knock some since in to him. Our friend just couldn't believe what H was doing...what an idiot. I told him what H is planning with bankruptcy, he said he needs to get a second job, get a roommate. I couldn't agree more unless roomie is OW.
Well we will see. Still have a few openings in my fantasy wizard of oz that need filled, so I'll go work on that.
kat
Last edited by kat727; 07/25/0812:35 PM.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I am so glad that you believe that will come for me. Maybe I will truely believe when I have been out of this mess. How long does it take to feel normal again?
I 100% believe you will have a wonderful future! You will have a wonderful relationship in the future! I think most of us here are great people with unconditional love for our WAS and they are leaving for infatuation, immaturity, or reasons like that. If they have a lick of sense, they will realize at some point they are making a huge mistake.
I think your H is going to realize that at some point. If not, your H is a total idiot!!! If he doesn't wake up and realize what a treasure you are, then before long someone who will realize that will be in your life and you deserve that!!! Karen
Karen: I 100% believe you will have a wonderful future! You will have a wonderful relationship in the future! I think most of us here are great people with unconditional love for our WAS and they are leaving for infatuation, immaturity, or reasons like that. If they have a lick of sense, they will realize at some point they are making a huge mistake.
I do think you will have a great future, I believe we all will however, that being said, I also believe it will take some time, right now, we are all tied up with too much crap going on in our lives. Once things settle down and we don't have to deal with our stbx's then I expect life will begin to get better.
I've met so many wonderful people lately, but I'm not open to anything yet becasue I have to close the current chapter in my life first before I open the next chapter and I think that applies to a lot of us here.
Thinking of you kat - hope you have a wonderful weekend.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
The only thing I can think of right now is that I will still be married on my birthday. I am sure it will have a sad undertone though. Maybe instead I should think of myself as already divorced and then I won't sweat it out so much. I am trying to close this chapter of my life. The book is so gosh darn fat and I am stomping on it like crazy but the lock keeps snapping open.
Happy thoughts, happy thoughts. I'll be the crazy lady soon and they will be coming after me with nets! lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I am so glad that you believe that will come for me. Maybe I will truely believe when I have been out of this mess. How long does it take to feel normal again?
I 100% believe you will have a wonderful future! You will have a wonderful relationship in the future! I think most of us here are great people with unconditional love for our WAS and they are leaving for infatuation, immaturity, or reasons like that. If they have a lick of sense, they will realize at some point they are making a huge mistake.
I think your H is going to realize that at some point. If not, your H is a total idiot!!! If he doesn't wake up and realize what a treasure you are, then before long someone who will realize that will be in your life and you deserve that!!! Karen
GLENDA!!!!!
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
You thought so too? Of course we all know who the wicked witch is...but should she be the one I kill with my house or the one I have to fight with. Yeah, I knew that answer as I was typing. Puppy would have to be the wizard because he is oh so wise. I am not sure if lodo would want to be my tin man but that could also go to hope4us. Decisions, decisions.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I want to be a flying monkey! Oh, wait ... that means I have to be with the wicked witch. In that case I'll be the tin man - unless you PREFER h4u to be the tin man, or we could be tin men (wasn't that a movie?).
