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nice list...!
but.. i think you need to seriously reconsider the "no sex" one.
maybe modify it to "no more sex when just HE feels like it".
If he works at being nice to you for it, then reward him.

cutting off sex from your husband completely is a veeerrrry dark and dangerous road to go down.
Sex is best as a bonding experience, not a punishment/control tool.
Not to mention, he'll start thinking you're getting it elsewhere.

Last edited by Dom R; 07/25/08 10:37 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle