So, PDT or whoever else on here that is ultra smart about these kinds of things, I am asking the following:
1) what should I be saying when she mentions house hunting ?
2) what should I be saying when she mentions going to college ?
when she asks about me signing the sep. papers, I plan on telling her "i'm sorry you feel this way, but you're entitled to your own thoughts. I just want what's best for our family, and I don't believe divorce is it."
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF