she never made it back to school while we were together because of bills (including me always buying weed and her wanting a brand new house) well after the bomb dropped I of course apologized for neglecting her want to pursue college and I offered to do whatever I could to get her through school (i did not mention financial help). just watching our son, helping her study, etc. She just let the idea of going to college fade away while we lived together; she wasn't always saying "i want to go to school. stop buying weed" I should have known though. classic story of H ignoring W's wants and desires until its too late.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
