Karen: I 100% believe you will have a wonderful future! You will have a wonderful relationship in the future! I think most of us here are great people with unconditional love for our WAS and they are leaving for infatuation, immaturity, or reasons like that. If they have a lick of sense, they will realize at some point they are making a huge mistake.
I do think you will have a great future, I believe we all will however, that being said, I also believe it will take some time, right now, we are all tied up with too much crap going on in our lives. Once things settle down and we don't have to deal with our stbx's then I expect life will begin to get better.
I've met so many wonderful people lately, but I'm not open to anything yet becasue I have to close the current chapter in my life first before I open the next chapter and I think that applies to a lot of us here.
Thinking of you kat - hope you have a wonderful weekend.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never