So, back to those creative juices. If you go to DC and stay in a separate room, how can you do that in a way that sends a positive message?
Not sure how to make it a 'positive' message. Suggestions?
I don't know. I guess I'd just be open and honest. Say "H, I'm apprehensive and nervous about this trip because of the awkward sleeping arrangements. It would be a great relief if you could simply accept that I need the space for my own reasons so that I can relax and enjoy the trip."
on top of this, letting your H know that just having the OPTION of another room is important in making you more comfortable. you're not saying you'll have to sleep in one room or the other, but having the option is important to you at this stage.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
