Yeah, it's def. addiction. Before my H moved out he was constantly on his phone or Blackberry texting the OW. One night D8 asked him to play one of her kid's games, it's a 5 minute game, and he kept screaming for us to hurry up and spin each time it was our turn, b/c he was having a hard time spending 5 minutes away from texting OW. That is really sad & pathetic. I think you just have to detach as much from their behavior, because I think it is really crazy and if you don't detach it's hard to live around a crazy person. I agree also re: listening/following Puppy and his advice. I wish I had followed it sooner and I know many others that think the same! Karen
Karen