I too get frustrated a bit that I have to be 'perfect' in the PMA regardless of what is happening. We are not allowed to express our real feelings...
The trick here is to make the PMA your true feelings.
thats it and thats all.
of course, I know thats the hard part.
thats what i'm fighting with too. that why you/I detach, GAL, etc etc.
You're doing great, you're in the friendship phase. look back a few weeks and what were you thinking then? let my tell you what i'm thinking: If i get in the friendship phase, i'll be the happiest DBing DAM you've ever seen.
of course, I know thats the hard part.
I'm a DAM, i'm not stupid.
Just keep up the good work, when the doubts creep in, hit them with the 2x4 so you dont have to hit to yourself.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
