HUGS to ALL! Thanks, everyone.

SMW, what is wrong with me that I feel so troubled that my husband is 'hurting' when he hasn't shown one ounce of concern for me? Am I the biggest dork in the history of the Universe???

And, Mike, why "blech"???

Kerry, buono Italiano. Ciao Bello! Did you know I'm 1/2 Sicilian? I think that's why I'm so fiery.

Anyway, about Stunninly Beautiful Italian Man (SBIM)... He's actually really interesting, very nice, great sense of humor, charming and there's a very high probability that he's MAJOR player.

He looks 28, but he's 38. Never been married. Learned English by watching David Lettermen. He's very passionate - to hear him describe his love for coffee was divine. Maybe it's because I've been with the world's least communicative man for the past almost 7 years that I was completely enthralled with the way this guy talks. I asked questions and let him do most of the chatting. It was nice. I'm glad I made a new friend.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence