Tracy, Tricia, Toni, Tabitha, Tonya, I could go on.......I can't search by ny. If you try, you will see what I am getting. My network is in a different state.
Good. I know she was trying to find something to do with her kids so it might not be until tomorrow, but I'll be checking in over the weekend.
I hope W's apparent good mood with S16 and possibly wanting to go out with us is real. Could she have possibly dealt with my revelation to her Monday this quickly? Could she, because she'd started making progress forward prior to that, have come to some realizations?
An S. Like Superman!
Enquiring minds want to know.
Last edited by Hope4us; 07/25/0807:00 PM.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
I think you are probably right. I think she needed time to get over that "blow" about OM. Plus, she will have ups and downs for a while. I still do. Push retrouvaille to get her to commit to working on the relationship.
I'm not sure she could get over that "blow" that quickly, but I've almost mini-LRT'd her since Monday night and it always seems like 3-4 days before she starts to come out of it after an MLRT.
We'll see what the evening holds. I'm going to push for Retro, but not going to get impatient about it. She told S16 this morning she was really ready for a vacation. We go to Disney in 2.5 weeks. So I'm going to let her come to me with the Retro unless she doesn't respond before vacation. Then I'll PUSH it....
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
Well, she's not over the blow. Didn't go out to dinner with us. S16 was really disappointed, but I told him not to worry about it. She did talk to me a little when she got home, but nothing since S16 and I got home from eating.
Oh well. Had a good time with S16 and another GAL day tomorrow. Mow the lawn and golf in the afternoon.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
Yep, didn't say a word to me the whole evening after returning from dinner. 1 small baby step though. She was reading a book on the couch and gave me the remote so I could watch what I wanted. WooHoo....We're on our way now!
Going to mow and play golf today, as long as the weather holds. I hope so, I really want to GAL today.
I just wish I knew if she was "thinking" about anything or if she's just cruisin along......
Still no word on Retro. I see that what I printed out is no longer in her purse, so it looks like she read it and probably threw it away, which I'm guessing means she's not willing to go, but who knows? I'll give her some more time to respond and see how she is for the next couple weeks (til our vacation) and then make my decision then.
Have a good weekend everyone!
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
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