Change name after the Big D?

[Lissie]

Waw, the name change thing to me is so personal.

You do what YOU feel is best for you, ok.

I kept my married last name.

Only b/c of my children, they both asked me to please keep it.

So I did.

That is really all it boils down to for me.

My children are 9 and 7 a bit older than your D, and I just asked them

And funny the X wanted me to keep his last name too. His words didn't have an impact on my decision tho.