Changed my name back shortly after my D was final.
Its really a personal choice.
My S was 18 at the time, I did ask him how he felt, he was really the only person whos opinion I cared about, Others had all sorts of input!
He said he didnt mind and understood. So I went ahead, I just felt I wanted to have MY name, the name I shared w/ those who loved me, personally I didnt feel ex deserved for me to be shaing it, to me, when you take your H name its a sign of respect, after all in this day us women do not have to. I had no respect for him.
So back it was, now if my S was younger I may not of, but I have friends who have. Thats where it may be a bit more difficult for you. Either way- the choice should be yours.
Good Luck to you
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