Thanks WDID. No, that's the really trying part. We've ALWAYS took at least two adults only vacations a year. And we've always gone out and done stuff together (like a couple weekends ago) and I've always done golf outings, etc......
I'm not sure if you'd find me searching anywhere, but if you looked for TAL, you might find something......
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
Something to think about......what did your W find so attractive about OM? I believe that is in the DB book or in one of the above articles by the moderator.
I searched for TAL and got 500 results. A way to narrow it? City, state? college, university? something?
Conversation, she told me he made her feel confident. Made her laugh. I've really been working on the conversation. I mean, we've always talked, but I think she felt like I dominated the conversations. Since she's shared that with me, I've let her do almost ALL the talking in conversations. I think that he made her feel confident because in our conversations, I'm the typical guy, when our wives ask us something or complain about something, we try to fix it and she saw that as me "fixing" her. So because he didn't try to fix her and prop'd her up, she felt confident around him. I've really been working on that too. I guess I'm like most guys in I didn't understand the difference in the ways women and men communicate. I read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and it talks a great deal about that very thing.
I can see how women would think the way they do, but it's not my intention to "fix" her. We just think if a woman asks us something or complains about something, they want an answer, and many times they don't. They just want to be heard.
You begin with a T in the state of NY. I told her you might be stopping by.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
And Oh, yeah, S16 and I are going out tonight. He asked me if I thought W would go and I told him I doubted it. He just TM'd me and said she told him she definitely might go. I told him I'd believe it when she was in the car backing down the drive.
He said she's in a pretty good mood. Uh oh. I almost like it better when she's in a bad mood. At least I know things aren't going well in her fantasy world. What's this good mood mean?
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
Just go with her good mood, don't question it. Use it to ask about retrouvaille again.
Ok, I need more....college or univ or company or email or last name. Sometimes last names can be hidden like in phrases such as Surely Money Isn't Too Handy for SMITH. Funny how that can happen.
