I know how he feels. Just so you know, you can "block" her number. Call the phone company. It may cost something, but for peace of mind, and for him, it may be the best thing. Everytime I would contact the OM I started back at square one with my withdrawal. Still withdrawing right now, actually. My H, like you, wanted to fight for our marriage. You are both very strong people. A goal you may want to make is to try to begin making new memories with him. Plan one and follow through. DOn't tell him, just do it.
Just so you know, you can "block" her number. Call the phone company. It may cost something, but for peace of mind, and for him, it may be the best thing. Everytime I would contact the OM I started back at square one with my withdrawal. Still withdrawing right now, actually. My H, like you, wanted to fight for our marriage. You are both very strong people. A goal you may want to make is to try to begin making new memories with him. Plan one and follow through. DOn't tell him, just do it.