ok, thanks frank. Thanks for the advice. I'll put it into practice tonight when I see her. I guess there's a balance between listening, not talking too much and not ignoring her either. Listen, validate, talk, but not too much information.
I went to the gym and ran a quick 2 miles. It's such a great way to burn off excess energy.
I still feel a little bit of anxiety but very low level. I think it will dissipate on its own.
I'm a little pissed off though because she is supposed to pick me up here at my brothers and I still haven't heard from her (2:15 now). We're supposed to be at the wedding by 4pm which means we have to leave in an hour. She should have called earlier and made arrangements for what time she was coming to get me.
Originally I wanted to pick her up, but we thought it would put too much stress on the kids since I haven't seen them since Wed.
Gonna dump the pissed off mode here too.... ok, dumped. Not gonna talk to her about it.
I'll post tonight or tomorrow.
Ken
Last edited by ken; 07/25/0806:12 PM.
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