Hi Distressed.. finally found your new thread as the link in your signature links back to the one that is locked!
Just a thought about your past few days, from a wife who walked on eggshells for years.. all she can see is the BEHAVIOUR looks the same, she doesn't know the intentions or the thoughts that accompany it (& those are different??)
She asked you multiple times over multiple days, what is wrong & if you are mad at her for something. I think she will draw her own conclusions if you don't provide something. You are feeding her fear & insecurities it seems to me (not that she isn't doing the same for you, but you can only control your actions).
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.