This seems to be a very odd situation....... I know some DBers would disagree...... But, I would ask her some questions about her intentions without directly initiating R talk....... Let her explain herself... Listen and validate....
My big concern for you is she turns into a big time cake eater... She will want you to be a "family" at times..... She will have the "benefits" of a H..... While she has her "freedom" to do whatever she wants because she is divorced.....
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
