Ms. Imp and her Magic Kumquat

[sofaraway]

Mike, you most certainly don't aggravate me! You're my bro... I love you man. ;-)

Brothers aggreviate sisters at times. Your a good woman and friend.

I've helped demo construction, helped build a fence, know how to change a tire, and all sorts of 'ranch' work. That was my dad's way of showing love and connecting with me.

you're making my heart flutter talking like this.

Never did much plumbing, though!

I have a plumber lined up..her names Nikki Plumbshersnake..she's even got a tool belt..LOL

Hey Mike, at this point we have a plumber and a construction woman...... I don't know about you, but I am thinking commune

Ian

[ernest88]

Hey Mike, at this point we have a plumber and a construction woman...... I don't know about you, but I am thinking commune

Now you're talking. One of the rules is you have to use your Porno name. LOL..

[Gypsy]

Hey Ms. imp..

Dropping by to leave some hugs and say hello..

*hugshugshugs*

[Sugar and Spice]

Hello darling Ms. Imp... Just wanted to check on you today.

(((hugs))) Corey

[girlfromipanema]

Hello, wonderful friends. Feeling a little out of it today. Stayed out with my friend till midnight and I'm usually in bed by 9:00. Woke up at my usual 5:00 a.m. to workout and I'm sleepy.

My husband wakes later than I do so we're not in our tiny home gym at the same time. After my shower, while he was working out, I asked if I could ask him a question.

H: Sure.
Me: Are you being so kind to me now because you feel a sense of relief?
H: Silence
Me: Do you feel a weight has been lifted off your shoulders now that I've 'let go' of the marriage?
H: crickets chirping
Me: It's just that you've been so ice cold to me for so many months and suddenly, since our decision to officially divorce, you've been really kind to me. I'm trying to understand the shift.
H: I don't feel relief. I'm hurt. Things are moving so fast and I have a million and one things on my mind.
Then he got up and gave me a long hug but didn't say anything else. Just silence.
Me: I never wanted you to be hurt.
H: Silence
Me: You sure have a hard time expressing yourself in words.
H: Silence

I'll tell you all about the beautiful Italian man a little later. Let me drink my coffee. Hopefully it will lift my spirits.

xoxoxoxoxoxo,
R

[ernest88]

Hello, wonderful friends. Feeling a little out of it today. Stayed out with my friend till midnight and I'm usually in bed by 9:00. Woke up at my usual 5:00 a.m. to workout and I'm sleepy.

My husband wakes later than I do so we're not in our tiny home gym at the same time. After my shower, while he was working out, I asked if I could ask him a question.

H: Sure.
Me: Are you being so kind to me now because you feel a sense of relief?
H: Silence
Me: Do you feel a weight has been lifted off your shoulders now that I've 'let go' of the marriage?
H: crickets chirping
Me: It's just that you've been so ice cold to me for so many months and suddenly, since our decision to officially divorce, you've been really kind to me. I'm trying to understand the shift.
H: I don't feel relief. I'm hurt. Things are moving so fast and I have a million and one things on my mind.
Then he got up and gave me a long hug but didn't say anything else. Just silence.
Me: I never wanted you to be hurt.
H: Silence
Me: You sure have a hard time expressing yourself in words.
H: Silence

I'll tell you all about the beautiful Italian man a little later. Let me drink my coffee. Hopefully it will lift my spirits.

xoxoxoxoxoxo,
R

god your good...that's all I can say..

your amazing. you've left me speechless..

I'm glad he got at least a few words out even though he communicated nothing.

The Italian man..blech

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

Hello, wonderful friends. Feeling a little out of it today. Stayed out with my friend till midnight and I'm usually in bed by 9:00. Woke up at my usual 5:00 a.m. to workout and I'm sleepy.

My husband wakes later than I do so we're not in our tiny home gym at the same time. After my shower, while he was working out, I asked if I could ask him a question.

H: Sure.
Me: Are you being so kind to me now because you feel a sense of relief?
H: Silence Cat got your tongue? LOL
Me: Do you feel a weight has been lifted off your shoulders now that I've 'let go' of the marriage?
H: crickets chirping swallowed your whole head? LMAO
Me: It's just that you've been so ice cold to me for so many months and suddenly, since our decision to officially divorce, you've been really kind to me. I'm trying to understand the shift.
H: I don't feel relief. I'm hurt. Things are moving so fast and I have a million and one things on my mind. DUH! Does he think this has been a cake walk for you?
Then he got up and gave me a long hug but didn't say anything else. Just silence.
Me: I never wanted you to be hurt.
H: Silence brought on by guilt
Me: You sure have a hard time expressing yourself in words.
H: Silence more guilt now add embarassment

I'll tell you all about the beautiful Italian man a little later. Let me drink my coffee. Hopefully it will lift my spirits.

xoxoxoxoxoxo,
R

I guess, sometimes it sucks to get what you thought you wanted?????

What the heck?

And I am anxiously awaiting info on the gorgeous Italian

{{{{{Ms. Imp}}}}}

SMW

[girlfromipanema]

HUGS to ALL! Thanks, everyone.

SMW, what is wrong with me that I feel so troubled that my husband is 'hurting' when he hasn't shown one ounce of concern for me? Am I the biggest dork in the history of the Universe???

And, Mike, why "blech"???

Kerry, buono Italiano. Ciao Bello! Did you know I'm 1/2 Sicilian? I think that's why I'm so fiery.

Anyway, about Stunninly Beautiful Italian Man (SBIM)... He's actually really interesting, very nice, great sense of humor, charming and there's a very high probability that he's MAJOR player.

He looks 28, but he's 38. Never been married. Learned English by watching David Lettermen. He's very passionate - to hear him describe his love for coffee was divine. Maybe it's because I've been with the world's least communicative man for the past almost 7 years that I was completely enthralled with the way this guy talks. I asked questions and let him do most of the chatting. It was nice. I'm glad I made a new friend.

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

{{{{{Miss Imp}}}}}

No ma'am, you are not a big dork. We leave that for MfT, racefan, and sofaraway! (sorry guys!)

You are simply a woman who still loves her husband, despite the fact that he is a DAM and a big dork!

Chin up, sweetie. Maybe the fog is getting some thin spots?

SMW

[girlfromipanema]

Thanks, SMW. Mike did mention he and I might be brother and sister at one point... the dorkyness could be genetic. =)

I'm kicking myself for asking the question this morning. I've been agonizing all day that my husband could be 'hurting' because of me. I'm agonizing about what is really going on in his head. It's a cheeseless tunnel but I can't seem to stop. AAAAACCCCKKKKKK!