I'm not ready yet ok. Hire an attorney. You hire one really. The woman will not even talk to me about the simplest things. I'm not getting an attorney involved yet.
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I know your tired why don't I keep the kids tonight?
NO! you just don't get it do you. The kids decide where they want to be. Me taking the kids would just be helping her again. Enabling her to be reckless. When she dumps the kids at her mothers for the night and doesn't bother telling me. Then I did pop in on her and she is up late with a co-worker. NO forget that.
She doesn't want the responsibilty of motherhood right now. Well sorry the decisions are already made for you. You are choosing to be a single parent right now.
There is no retionalizing with this woman. Get it through your head Ian. This isn't DBing.
I can't set boundries because she violates them. Gets pissed and that pushes her away more. She argues with me about the schedule over an hour problem and the very next day the arguement was invalid. Come on dude... There is no logic to this.
The kids decide where they want to be.
Is that the way you both have set it up or just how it is?
I can tell you that you shouldn't be putting them in the position to choose. You're the parents.
Originally Posted By: LostPhil
Jack three beans- You asked about the spite issue. I was going to build a couch and make it look like a pirate ship. No I'm not doing that for spite. I'm doing that to show the woman that this is not her house anymore and I'm going to do and decorate whatever I want to it. It's my house. She left.
sounds like spite to me Phil...
Originally Posted By: LostPhil
She may think boy I better go home before the house floats away with that pirate theme.
Ian,
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Quit taking care of her Phil
Didn't others say take care of Phil and kids. Make up your minds!
these say the same thing. Ian said to stop taking care of her.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
