I remember how hard mediation was for you. I think in your sit anything would have been hard!
We took so dang long to get through anything that it helped the process in a way. But it was me leading that particular dance every step of the way. I made the appointments, filled out the paperwork, filed, etc. It was painful, but at least it is over now, and if I hadn't I might still be married to that guy! LOL!
SG
Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker