nlt, thanks for the advice! I have no idea what I will do to tell you the truth...I will cross that bridge if and when I come to it.

I got an e-card from a Catholic website for my b-day from H!!! I was surprised he remembered but as my b-day is the same day as his grandmother's I doubt he could forget...LOL!

I was reading "the Prodigal's Prospective" and in it the author says that they really do feel guilt and that their life is not as happy as it seems...I have no idea...I am assuming this is true. But how can your H's 'new life' be any better when he did not face the problems in his 'old one'? Think about it.

Hang in there!

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller