I don't know what to suggest about the porn. I like the idea of using it as a way to flirt with him. I did that the one time I caught my H with it during this MLC of his (if that is what it is) and it didn't make things worse. He seemed relieved by my reaction.
Could you ask him how it makes him feel in a non-judging way? and then just listen to what he says without offering your feelings. Maybe you could get some insight that way.
Besides the porn, it seems like things are chugging along for you!
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