thanks C2H, I didn't realize how I was holding my breath the entire time stbx was around, bleah, I wanted so bad to make it work that I didn't realize for it to work he'd have to give too, and he was in no shape for that. No contact w/him, feels good, looking forward to a good weekend
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
