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jak,

got your message.. sorry didn't get back to you. Things are really crazy here. We left crack of dawn on Sat. and didn't get home until late late last night and he's off out west again, left on a plane this morning.


Work is crazy!! I have to run back again in a few. I will be home probably around 5 if you have time to call.

Hope your ok.


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Any news on the babies?

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MAT,


NOOOOOO not yet we are trying to be patient.
Even H is getting excited it seems about them. Thats good as he is in a funk about doing things that he likes again.

They said if she hasn't had them by next Wednesday when she goes for her visit that they will schedule to induce. They don't want her to go to 40 weeks as they think it will cause to much stress.
Right now she is 37 weeks so it will be 38.

How are you?

JAK


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Got to talk to Fantasy OW(that is what I call her now that I know the story) today.
She said that H's friends have talked about H not wanting to do or be interested in anything and when she has to have interaction she can see it too.
She said she bought a book on MLC and that she has been reading since talking to me and that he is certainly classic.
She told me that he told her the other day that he wishes they could go back to being friends and she said no. She said she does not feel comfortable being his freind after what has happened.

She said that if I decided to tell him we talked to just give her a heads up. We both feel that this is going to take a crisis to end his and that would be to bring the whole thing into the open.

Is Puppy smiling?

JAK


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((((jak))))

This sounds very positive! I'm a little sad about the "back to being friends" thing but kudos to her for her response. I hope something shakes him up soon!

Any ideas on things you could try?


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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Hey jak..

She sounds like a real descent person and Im glad that she's not some troll.

What are your thoughts on what your going to do about this??

Call me when you can..

Thinking of you.

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Hi JAK,

Keep us informed on the babies, how exciting!

Yoyo




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YOYO

Of course I will.
D goes to the Dr's tomorrow and they will scedule to induce.
Can't wait we need some good things.

JAK


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what's up.. you've got mail.. how is your daughter??


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D is still hanging in there.
They might not induce until next Wednesday or Thursday. SHe has to have tests Monday.

We are supposed to go camping Friday what the heck!
She hasn't even started to dialate but that doesn't mean anything.
She says she wants them out. \:D

JAK


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