It's a good sign that she took it to work with her to look at it.
Whatever the OM gave her overrode the bad behavior he would display. I was thinking about something yesterday.....she was so excited about that trip you guys took, a chance for her to get dressed up, go out, etc. She was trying to create something with you, and she was really trying. Have you set up another "date"? Something for her to look forward to? Is going out a 180 for you or is going on the golf outings, etc. something you did before?
Just thinking.........
Also, I still want to find you on fb. Can you be creative about sticking your search name in a paragraph or something so I can find you?