You can do anything that you feel comfortable doing.
The key I think is in really trying to read her response, without appearing to be reading her response.
If she's cold to your approach, back off and try again another day.
No expectations. THAT's the one that usually trips us up here. If you pursue and she rejects, are you ready to let it roll of you like you're made of teflon?
You be yourself, whatever that entails. I assume at some point that she was pretty good with who you are.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
