You don't really describe conversations with your wife, giving us dialogue. If you could, I could give you specifics of what I might have said differently, if anything. You post short snippets of thought, all broad, in post after post, and it's tough for me to be more specific than I've been, I'm sorry.
Others will tell you, giving specific wording is actually one of my strengths. I just have a hard time providing it to you, for the reasons stated above.
I will say this: When you say
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Playing it cool and getting a life isn't doing much if anything.
, I would tell you that it is WAYYYYYY too early to judge that. This is a MARATHON, not a sprint, and you've only begun to run the race.
