I'll agree with Puppy...it's much easier said than done right now, but do your best to breathe through the grief and drop the rope. It takes conscious effort to focus in on other things, but they'll help you through. Love, nurture and protect yourself and your daughter, and do your best to let everything he's doing slide off your back--it is what it is--whether he admits it or not changes nothing. Regarding the D...just let it sit and see where it goes. (After talking to attys to be sure you know what to expect, etc.)
