NOW KIDS CAN WE PLEASE PLAY NICE.....HECK I GO AWAY AND ALL HE11 BREAKS LOOSE.....WELL DIDNT GO ANYWHERE JUST TOO TIRED TO COME ON AND CHAT....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Haven't heard from you in awhile. Let us know how things are going.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
not much to say.....going to my first big dressage show with Mistral. yikes...really not ready but away we go anyways.
nothing new with H....no intimacy....shy's away from it....not even really getting kisses anymore.....but ILY's all day long...go figure
he gets defensive if I bring it up or just blows me off with "im working on it" or " I wouldnt say Im not interested in you that way" ugh actually I hate that as much as he hated "Im sorry you feel that way"
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
What if you went to Victoria's Secret or another place like it and got the absolute sexiest outfit, garter belt, and hey, maybe add in some body frosting................
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
i do ask how and tell him i dont see antthing....no answer,
it would do no good at all to sexy-up. ive tried. zero response. gain 50 lbs and get a long red wig and throw my moral values out the window......i guess
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Focus on the positive here. Many of us would be happy to be in your shoes....
ILYs? Awesome
Breton can you really hand on heart say that you would willing put up with what Pattie is going through? We keep being told it's actions not words that count. Whilst I cannot possibly know whether Patti's H means his ILYs if I were her I would certainly want some other proof that he meant it.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Yes, I think some people would be very comfortable with this.
As a matter of fact, I know people whom I have worked with who have been married several years and do you know what? They are only intimate once a month! They set a date for that. I have heard of others where it is only once a year.
Might sound dreadful to some but to these people, they don't mind at all.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
