Alien invasion 3.0

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I think you need the LRT, to be as dark as possible.

If you want the D over as quickly as possible, you COULD file yourself and force it forward moving all resistance.

I think your H has demonstrated similar things in the way he changes things about his faith and job. I think this is just one other thing. THat is just my opinion and it doesn't make me right. I don't think it will serve you either way to think about it being MLC.

Dropping the rope doesn't mean giving up, it can be positive.


THIS IS NOT DB ADVICE, THIS IS PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
I think should contact several attorneys as a strategy...especially whoever you think your H might contact. Just interview them. Not worth paying a fee.


No matter what is fair...about visitation and fees (him paying your lawyer)....does not mean it will play out that way.

You could use it as a negotiating strategy.

And then DB after divorce. I'm not saying I recommend it, I'm saying it's an option.



Part of the reason I've 'called puppy in' is I have too many personal feelings about your situation, so I'm kind of firing myself. I'll give you support as a friend, but I'm not objective.