I can't really tell what your friend's call was all about. Maybe there is "a delay" in things? Like things have progressed and because your friends do not know that, translate incidents from another POV?
Not much you can do anyway, you should be able to voice some of your concerns at a point but you know best when that should be...
Keep walking Stellitsa mou (why don't you join us in the alternate universe, do you have Jen's email?) Love K