I have detached to the point where I haven't cried in 3 weeks or showed any emotion around her other than being upbeat and encouraging of her pursuit of a degree and career. Her parents and friends aren't going to tell her how to live life and she has to make her own mistakes so I've hit a roadblock. She won't slow down on this separation jazz, in the meantime i'm out GAL with friends and my son. Reconnected with family too. Is there a way out of this ditch ? when she tells me things about house hunting and OM wanting to help pay for school, i feel like she's gauging my reaction (won't look at me). She cares about me, but what the hell does that mean nowadays
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
