HM I am so sorry for what you are going through. Have you spoken with an atty? We lived in Indiana at the time of bomb #1 and I called a womans hotline and was able to get a free 20 min consult with an atty. She was amazing and gave me some excellent advice, she is in Valpo.
I haven't spoken with an attorney yet; I'm flat broke and getting worse financially. However, if there are helplines out there, I'll find one and see what I can do. Thanks.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012