i'm sorry last nite didn't go well for you. IT's tough to hear the D word...it really is. However, remember the mantra that's been repeated millions of times on this board...
Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.
Easier said than done, right? But ingrain it in your pysche. it's just his viewpoint, RIGHT NOW. he can change his mind...that's the wonderful thing about the mind.
i saw this on 7yearitch's thread, and i've been trying to find a way to work into my sitch...it might help you in yours..
"I know you can't work for us, but please stop working against us"
try saying that to him....or something along those lines...it could work wonders.
stay strong. I hope today is a better day......detach..do something nice for yourself...
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
