At this point, I'm thinking of writing out what I would say to H---saying that I know, and that it doesn't matter, but I've known for a long time. I will not ask for confirmation from him, but just explain where I am and how I feel about it all. After I get the letter just right I will keep it until I have the opportunity to read it to him in person. I'm hoping that if I read it, I will be able to stay focused and not get too very emotional. I will also be able to get everything said that I want to. I may even post it here to get input.
FW---I would like to know what you were thinking and going through----how important you think denying the OW is at this point and how it feels to be "outed." I think I've been to the other site before, but I can't seem to find it now. I know with all the rules about posts these days you may not be able to give me more than 40/60----but if there is a way, I need help finding it.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
