hi honey....I'm sorry he's doing this.

Hoosier,

My advice and/opinions:

I DO NOT think this is MLC. I think this is partly just his character/personality/whatever....just HIM. Poor behavior.

Drop this counselor..... or.....start setting consequences for him and this counselor. State your request (which you've done) then set the consequence (one you can live with). What consequences: you can take your evidence for one, and I think you figure out some other consequences. My brain isn't working that well right now....but we can help with that.

Attorneys love to drag divorces out. It's how they make money, so get one to help you.

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him"

"If God is for us, who can be against"



Father, you are always with us. The things the enemy means for evil, you will use for the good of hoosiermama and her daughter. She loves you. She's your child. Father, please make your love for her and your plan for her evident. Guide her in her every step. Let no weapon formed against her and her marriage prosper. Show the truth to all.

Bring healing to her H's troubled mind and heart. Please put barriers between him and the other woman, between all the forces pushing this divorce forward. I ask this knowing divorce is not your will.

Father, through you and Jesus all things are possible, even the healing of this marriage, so we look to you.

Amen.




Addition:


Words aren't working. Stop using them. Actions. Anything is better than words.

Can you (and your daughter) take a spontaneous vacation?

Last edited by sgctxok; 07/25/08 12:25 PM.
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Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001