Sunny, I am sorry. This man is trying so hard to control you and your life. He NEEDS to feel he is still in charge. I bet you feel "violated". Awful feeling... Do you have any PC wizzard friends that could come and check your PC? Is there anything in your emails and PC that would seriously harm you? Can you act "as if" and pretend you don't know about it? Can you type a few things pretending you are unaware of his doings and get a message across to him? Proceed with caution. Love K
