H is having affair after all - part 3

[Evie]

Thanks naej, your not butting in, glad for the advice as i swing with the wind really, what you say makes sense. Did you have the legal seperation and then D? or would it be better to get it all over and done with at the same time whilst the solicitor is sorting all the finances?

I've received an email from H in reply to the email I sent this is an excerpt:

As for OW - yes we are good friends and no i wasn't lying to you when i said it was over - it was.

I dont know what the future holds for any of us - i am still trying to get through this whilst trying to remain sain - for me to say i am going to do this and that with some body else is a joke - do you not think life is crap enough at the moment without making it more complicated !

Like your life mine is private - i have no wish to throw it around in public unless some one else does it for me. We live too separate lives now - i have no wish to know what you do or where you go - i trust you implicitly with the boys and with the business and will continue to work for the both of us with the swimming lessons. You know i will always be there for the boys in every way possible as a father does.

Jen_jam, i'm thinking about your reversed/projected psychology here..

what is he ACTUALLY saying? What do we think of the affair is it on or off?

And MY LIFE is pretty good actually in terms of GAL and friends etc

xxxxxx